Butterfly - Goldfilled

This dainty butterfly is approximately 9mm. Not only is it beautiful, but is deeply personal for me as a mother, trying to guide without crushing the fragile wings as my girls spread their wings and prepare to eventually leave the nest...read the rest below.

All components of this necklace are made of 14k goldfilled materials, right down to the clasp. It won't turn your skin green or tarnish, and with care, will last years, glittering away beautifully. All our goldfilled materials are nickle-free and great for sensitive skin.

  You started off so small, so fragile, so fully dependent on me for every single thing. My entire focus in life shifted in the blink of an eye to tune in to your cries, your needs, and I did my best to fulfill them. Over time, tho seemingly suddenly, you've changed into this young lady who doesn't seem to need me at all, and I just want to hold you + hug you + squeeze you tight without smothering you. It's challenging. I watched as you tried out your new wings...slowly, timidly at first, then more assuredly, determined, as you do. In wanting to help I'd rush in + often my clumsy attempts, inexperience + prideful weakness did more damage than good. I pray the Lord heals the bruises on your wings caused by my calloused clenching and that He gives me strength to let go. That I can hold you with an open hand, firmly enough to direct you but loosely enough to let you go when + where the Holy Spirit leads you. That you'd not be flung about with every wind of change or trend that comes blowing by but be guided from above. That you will soar on wings like eagles; run + not be weary; walk + not faint. I pray that He will restore all the broken pieces that have been crushed by rough handling + that you will experience God's love like never before. That you revel in His plan + purpose + unique calling on your life, giving all glory + honor to the One who created you so fearfully + wonderfully. That you'd be transformed by the renewing of your mind. In a world that says it's all about me, that you'd die to self daily to give God the honor + glory due him by shining His light as you grow in grace and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I pray that I would not hold you back from flying where the Lord leads you because of my own insecurities or fears, but that you will know I will always be your safe place to land. Because there where my baby once stood, a young woman now stands + we couldn't be prouder to call you ours. So when feelings of inadequacy come, we'll keep trusting in God's grace + His mercies that are new every day, for all of us. And as we enter these new chapters, just go ahead + live like you're loved...because you are. 🤍🤍🤍